Some hens are control freaks and get involved in the minute details of everything to do with their wedding.
We all know the type.
Military precision is nothing compared to the "control freak" hen.
The hen night is just one more thing for them to control.
If that is the case then I suggest the head bridesmaid / friend stands aside and lets her at it.
It will only lead to friction and arguments if the hen is disturbed in her quest to organise the world.
In such cases just offer support where you think it is needed and help avoid any friction caused by the dictatorial hen.
The other type of hen is the one who never makes her mind up and just wanders from one disaster to another.
It can all be a bit of fun but when it comes to organising a hen party it pays huge dividends to be well organised.
This is where the true friend recognises the potential for disaster and quietly guides the Bride To Be in the right direction.
I have also come across situations where the Bride To Be does not want to offend any of her friends and family and allocates various hen party tasks to different people.
This is probably the worst case scenario.
Invariably something is forgotten or it is assumed "someone else" is looking after things.
I am not saying it cannot work but it is not the best way of organising a hen party.
Whatever the situation, if you are a hen or Bridesmaid in charge of a hen night it is vital that all the relevant people understand what is required of them.
Clear communication is vital.
For an enjoyable hen night put some extra time and effort into the planning phase.
There is one element of planning a hen party that is as easy as falling of a log.
That is purchasing all the traditional hen party accessories and costumes.
Wigs, angel wings and balloons are all available online from the wide selection of party shops.