Much has been said about how to be a good lover to your man.
But did you know that your man actually wants your respect, support, and trust more than your love? Here's what every man secretly wishes his partner knew about him.
Women Want To Be Loved, Men Want To Be Respected We women want to be loved, because it makes us feel important and cherished.
That's why sometimes, we think our men want the same thing -- and we proceed to shower him with love and affection.
But there's a reason why some relationships get strained after a few years, even when there's a lot of love going around.
The reason? The lack of respect.
For instance, many of us try to correct our men.
We try to control him by telling him what to do, how to do things, and what parts of his personality annoy us.
In our minds, we think we're loving him by expressing "what's best for him.
" But deep inside, a man can feel disrespected.
And when a man doesn't feel respected, it's difficult for him to love.
And when you don't feel loved, it's difficult for you to respect him.
It's a vicious cycle! This is precisely the vicious cycle that is straining many relationships and marriages today.
If only every woman knew this little secret: Men secretly crave respect, support, and trust more than love! So do you want to keep a downward spiral from happening in your relationship? Want to set an "upward spiral" in motion instead? Then these tips should help you get started:

• Just as you like to be appreciated, always appreciate him.
  Too many women go around bashing their guys, especially in public.
  
• Praise him when he can hear it.
  This could be over the phone or in the presence of friends.
  This is one of the secrets of couples who stay in love and together forever.
  
• Use clean language in his presence and make a deal for your relationship that nobody gets to use curse words.
  
• Allow him his privacy.
  Don't snoop around.
  (If you trust him, you will not need to.
  )
• Exaggerate the good.
  Bite back the temptation to criticize him.
  You'll want to compliment him at least 4 times more than you nag him!
• Tell him you love how he takes care of you and the family.
  
• Listen to him intently when he speaks, even if it is the third time you are hearing it.
  
• Speak from the heart not from the head.
  You don't have to prove anything to anyone, least of all your man.
  
• Let him make the big decisions.
  Men like to be in the driver's seat.
  This doesn't mean you are relinquishing control: it just means less work for you! Make the small decisions to keep yourself happy, or the ones that pertain to you.
  Like which color of nail polish to choose for today's manicure!
• Give him some space.
  This means you get yours too.
  Just make sure it isn't too much.
  

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