For you to be reading this article right now, it is quite possible that you have just gone trough a break up and you are trying to get your ex back.  You are probably desperate and looking for advice all over the web to try to find the best way to get back with your ex. I know how you feel, I have been there many times before and I know how painful it can be.  The good news is that you can get back your ex with simple steps but you need to follow them well for it to work.  There are also a few things you will have to avoid to be able to maximize your chance to get your ex back.

Firstly, you need to allow them time, let them breath.  I know on a moment like this, what you want most is to be with your ex but for your own good better stay away for some time.  It is normal to feel the urge to call them and beg them to take you back; in fact this is the biggest mistakes many people make.  You should absolutely avoid doing these just after your break up.  Best things to do is to let your ex know that you accept their decision and will allow both of you some time apart to be able to think over the situation.

You are probably asking yourself what is the second step.  Rest assured you are not going to stay away from your ex forever.  The time that you are going to spend apart you need to use it wisely.  Work on a plan.  When you will call your ex again after some time, you need to believe in yourself, your target is to get your ex back right?  I am sure you do not want to ruin your chances to achieve your goal.  Try to figure out what caused the break up and see what you can change to improve your relationship when you will get your ex back.  One thing that you should avoid at this stage is to try not to make promises that you will not be able to keep.  This is a dangerous weapon that may only cause your couple more harm in the future.

Of course, these are only a few steps that will help you in the process to get your ex back.  There are still a few more steps that you have to go through to get your ex back.