Do you really love your spouse or where you ever in love with them to begin with? The pain of a bad marriage can rob you of your life and there is no reason to continue suffering.
The number of people who get married for the wrong reasons and end up really unhappy, hoping to get out of a bad marriage is mind blowing.
You know how you keep the truth about your true feelings locked away? Well imagine, is your spouse doing the exact same thing and like you no longer wants to continue this bad marriage? Even more to the point it's just sad that people stay in rocky marriages thinking they can't get out.
The biggest step to healing is accepting where your relationship truly stands.
To determine if you in a bad marriage 1) Do you and or your spouse put each other down everyday.
Hurting people hurt other people.
2) Does your mood sinks the minute your spouse comes home or is around you.
3) Bad marriages make you feel bad.
People shouldn't live like that.
4) You don't feel like you please your spouse.
5) You should never be made to feel like it's your job to please your spouse.
6) Happy people, who truly love each other please each other without effort.
7) Your expected to do things that make you feel uncomfortable.
8) A person who's consumed with what they want over your well being and comfort has issues.
9) You never really wanted to marry this person from the start.
I could go on and on with this list, it's huge but I think you all get the point.
Heck between you and me, we could write a book of reasons.
It's time to move past that.
Being in a bad marriage is horrible and there is no reason why you should stay.
Honestly, both parties will be better off.
Planning Now you should plan.
Divorce is something many of us would give anything for and yet in the end you don't want regrets.
We all have different things to consider when divorcing.
Think about what matters most to you and what you feel will matter most to your spouse.
The trick is getting out of this with little scars.
To get what you want you're going to need to realize what your spouse will want.
You use these things as bargaining chips to get what you want.
The goal here is to keep the claws in.
People who don't feel threatened are far easier to deal with.
Remember you did marry this person and for that you have your part in this as does your spouse.
The shot gun wedding didn't actually happen to you.
You can't forget you're apart of the problem and will need to work with respect for the other person to get out of this in a respectful manner.
There are so many reasons why people get divorced and there is a lot of work after if you ever imagine being in another relationship that succeeds.
The number of people who get married for the wrong reasons and end up really unhappy, hoping to get out of a bad marriage is mind blowing.
You know how you keep the truth about your true feelings locked away? Well imagine, is your spouse doing the exact same thing and like you no longer wants to continue this bad marriage? Even more to the point it's just sad that people stay in rocky marriages thinking they can't get out.
The biggest step to healing is accepting where your relationship truly stands.
To determine if you in a bad marriage 1) Do you and or your spouse put each other down everyday.
Hurting people hurt other people.
2) Does your mood sinks the minute your spouse comes home or is around you.
3) Bad marriages make you feel bad.
People shouldn't live like that.
4) You don't feel like you please your spouse.
5) You should never be made to feel like it's your job to please your spouse.
6) Happy people, who truly love each other please each other without effort.
7) Your expected to do things that make you feel uncomfortable.
8) A person who's consumed with what they want over your well being and comfort has issues.
9) You never really wanted to marry this person from the start.
I could go on and on with this list, it's huge but I think you all get the point.
Heck between you and me, we could write a book of reasons.
It's time to move past that.
Being in a bad marriage is horrible and there is no reason why you should stay.
Honestly, both parties will be better off.
Planning Now you should plan.
Divorce is something many of us would give anything for and yet in the end you don't want regrets.
We all have different things to consider when divorcing.
Think about what matters most to you and what you feel will matter most to your spouse.
The trick is getting out of this with little scars.
To get what you want you're going to need to realize what your spouse will want.
You use these things as bargaining chips to get what you want.
The goal here is to keep the claws in.
People who don't feel threatened are far easier to deal with.
Remember you did marry this person and for that you have your part in this as does your spouse.
The shot gun wedding didn't actually happen to you.
You can't forget you're apart of the problem and will need to work with respect for the other person to get out of this in a respectful manner.
There are so many reasons why people get divorced and there is a lot of work after if you ever imagine being in another relationship that succeeds.
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