The most popular pre-marital advice often given to people who is planning to get married is "know each other deeply.
" For those who had been friends prior to becoming romantic partners, this is somewhat easy.
From the first time two people decided to make a romantic relationship together, their road to marriage should be a succession of two different stages before they decide to be bonded forever.
Yes, there are just two basic stages.
Not five, four, not even three.
If both parties are truthfully into building a good future together, this is really basic but not simple to do.
Getting to Know Stage For people who started out from being good friends before being romantic partners, this should be somewhat brief.
It is natural because both already have an idea about each other's characteristics like; how is he when drunk, how often she shops, does he go to church or can she be one of the guys.
For partners who were introduced and then suddenly jumped into dating require longer period of knowing each other but this is the perfect time to build a good friendship.
This is the reason why you are in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.
People did not invent this situation it came about because there is a need to be in it prior to getting married.
So make the most out of it.
This should be dawn of a romantic bond, not after the wedding or during marriage.
If at this stage partners have found characteristics they cannot live with, beliefs they cannot agree with or principles they cannot put up with then they should come up with a mutual compromise on how to make things work.
If the attempt to compromise failed, it will be a doomed marriage and that is a good reason not to proceed.
Commitment Stage Some say they are committed to their partners, but how do you know that you have actually reached this phase? It is when your heart and mind have unanimously decided that you are in the right place and are happy about it.
Some people may tell you otherwise and may elicit doubt.
As soon as any doubt is erased, you are back and safe again in knowing your true happiness.
So do not just say it, feel it.
No matter how many times in a day you say you are committed, unless you can actually feel it then you are still just in the getting to know stage.
A final pre-marital advice; getting married is a big leap and it is but normal to be scared of the future.
But think about this, when you want to run away from everything around you and you have just one person to turn to, who will that be? If there is no other name but your beloved partner, then doubt no more because you are in the right track.
" For those who had been friends prior to becoming romantic partners, this is somewhat easy.
From the first time two people decided to make a romantic relationship together, their road to marriage should be a succession of two different stages before they decide to be bonded forever.
Yes, there are just two basic stages.
Not five, four, not even three.
If both parties are truthfully into building a good future together, this is really basic but not simple to do.
Getting to Know Stage For people who started out from being good friends before being romantic partners, this should be somewhat brief.
It is natural because both already have an idea about each other's characteristics like; how is he when drunk, how often she shops, does he go to church or can she be one of the guys.
For partners who were introduced and then suddenly jumped into dating require longer period of knowing each other but this is the perfect time to build a good friendship.
This is the reason why you are in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.
People did not invent this situation it came about because there is a need to be in it prior to getting married.
So make the most out of it.
This should be dawn of a romantic bond, not after the wedding or during marriage.
If at this stage partners have found characteristics they cannot live with, beliefs they cannot agree with or principles they cannot put up with then they should come up with a mutual compromise on how to make things work.
If the attempt to compromise failed, it will be a doomed marriage and that is a good reason not to proceed.
Commitment Stage Some say they are committed to their partners, but how do you know that you have actually reached this phase? It is when your heart and mind have unanimously decided that you are in the right place and are happy about it.
Some people may tell you otherwise and may elicit doubt.
As soon as any doubt is erased, you are back and safe again in knowing your true happiness.
So do not just say it, feel it.
No matter how many times in a day you say you are committed, unless you can actually feel it then you are still just in the getting to know stage.
A final pre-marital advice; getting married is a big leap and it is but normal to be scared of the future.
But think about this, when you want to run away from everything around you and you have just one person to turn to, who will that be? If there is no other name but your beloved partner, then doubt no more because you are in the right track.
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