There is no greater hurt than a woman confronted by the reality of divorce.
Even if the writing has been on the wall for some time, when those words "I want a divorce" are said, it is like a bomb going off in your face.
This is an open admission that the person you feel in love with, for richer and poorer does not want you any more.
But this it is not the end.
Are you in divorce? Avoid depression at all costs.
Recovery is what you need.
When the pain descends, you need to realize you can recover.
This is your only opportunity to attain happiness and live life as you want it.
The road to recovery will be rough.
But you must quickly try to pick up the pieces and move on.
Maintaining ties with that person is a no-no.
You must cut off ties quickly and immediately.
Get everything that reminds you of him, out the house.
Change your phone numbers.
If possible, change your place of residence.
Once your partner announces that he is no longer interested, do not mull over your marriage.
Start thinking of your survival in divorce, depression should not be allowed.
Focus on recovery all the way.
You might be angry with yourself, your ex and even the world.
This is alright.
Get it out.
Do not allow it consume you.
But never let it get out of hand.
Anger is a volatile form of emotion and you need to free it.
Understand your anger.
Manage it well and you can use your anger to regain your emotional well-being.
You can tell your ex what has been bothering you.
Write it down and rehearse.
Avoid being drawn into shout matches and stick to your script.
Make an appointment with a minister and share your pain or explain your anger.
You need to work on your happiness.
No one will do it for you.
There will come a day, when you will no longer be bogged down by thoughts of your ex.
It would not be a bother, when you see him with another woman.
So as divorce cannot be avoided, it is important you steer clear of depression with a fast recovery.