A very positive effect of a father's influence in a child's life is one of a child learning how to be compassionate, loving and able to empathize and help others.
It is very unfortunate that many women lack these essential qualities probably from bad upbringing themselves.
How selfish can they be to think that they created these children alone? Some fathers are better care giver then some mothers, it doesn't mean that the child totally belongs to a women because she carried it for nine months in her belly, it is very sad that in these modern times we live in, the judiciary system around the world is still very bias against men.
The law needs to be changed to put the rights of the children first, what I mean by that, is simply to have a mandatory joint custody of the children after a psychological evaluations on both parents, especially if the father wants to be part of the child's life and if he wants to devote his life for his children, then for heaven sake why don't we let him.
Juvenile violent crime has increased eating disorders and rates of depression have soared among adolescent girls.
Teen suicide has tripled.
Alcohol and drug abuse among teen-agers are at all time high, three out of four teenagers who commit suicide come from broken homes without the presence or love of a father.
I have to tell you that I am a living proof of a bias judiciary system for men, I have a daughter who is two and one half years old, she is the centre of my life, unfortunately I had the misfortune to have my beautiful child with this type of women who thinks that she is doing me a huge favor when she lets me see my daughter.
She prefers to live with her parents still and have her parents care for my child when she is not around witch is most of the time, rather then accepting a joint custody arrangement with me.
What is so unbelievable is that my daughter after spending one or two nights with me, she simply doesn't want to go back to her mother's and grand-parents place, she cries and yells daddy daddy as I close her door behind me and leave with tears and sorrow and a pain that only a loving father can understand, I do what I can to tell her that I love her very much and I will be back to get her soon, as directed by the courts.
In any case like the saying goes, you can't keep a good man down, I will fight this battle till the end and will win a joint custody of my daughter or better, I am simply waiting for my daughter to turn three years old.
What keeps me going is the incredible love that i feel from my daughter.
I have some women friends that also have children and are single mothers, they are good women that were married or engaged to men with violent tempers or substance abusers, they would love for the fathers to clean themselves up and be around in their children's life, but the other side of the spectrum is that a lot of women prefer to keep a good man and excellent father away from his children no matter what.
A father that truly loves his children cannot live well without them; we are not sperm donors but dedicated fathers that love our children with all our hearts.
It is very unfortunate that many women lack these essential qualities probably from bad upbringing themselves.
How selfish can they be to think that they created these children alone? Some fathers are better care giver then some mothers, it doesn't mean that the child totally belongs to a women because she carried it for nine months in her belly, it is very sad that in these modern times we live in, the judiciary system around the world is still very bias against men.
The law needs to be changed to put the rights of the children first, what I mean by that, is simply to have a mandatory joint custody of the children after a psychological evaluations on both parents, especially if the father wants to be part of the child's life and if he wants to devote his life for his children, then for heaven sake why don't we let him.
Juvenile violent crime has increased eating disorders and rates of depression have soared among adolescent girls.
Teen suicide has tripled.
Alcohol and drug abuse among teen-agers are at all time high, three out of four teenagers who commit suicide come from broken homes without the presence or love of a father.
I have to tell you that I am a living proof of a bias judiciary system for men, I have a daughter who is two and one half years old, she is the centre of my life, unfortunately I had the misfortune to have my beautiful child with this type of women who thinks that she is doing me a huge favor when she lets me see my daughter.
She prefers to live with her parents still and have her parents care for my child when she is not around witch is most of the time, rather then accepting a joint custody arrangement with me.
What is so unbelievable is that my daughter after spending one or two nights with me, she simply doesn't want to go back to her mother's and grand-parents place, she cries and yells daddy daddy as I close her door behind me and leave with tears and sorrow and a pain that only a loving father can understand, I do what I can to tell her that I love her very much and I will be back to get her soon, as directed by the courts.
In any case like the saying goes, you can't keep a good man down, I will fight this battle till the end and will win a joint custody of my daughter or better, I am simply waiting for my daughter to turn three years old.
What keeps me going is the incredible love that i feel from my daughter.
I have some women friends that also have children and are single mothers, they are good women that were married or engaged to men with violent tempers or substance abusers, they would love for the fathers to clean themselves up and be around in their children's life, but the other side of the spectrum is that a lot of women prefer to keep a good man and excellent father away from his children no matter what.
A father that truly loves his children cannot live well without them; we are not sperm donors but dedicated fathers that love our children with all our hearts.
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